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"Nothing has been as powerful and life changing as the revolutionary work of the Heart and Mind, and the love and guidance of my ethereal and human teachers."
- CTH Student

About Us

Gay Kalember 

Gay entered this lifetime with a profound awareness of truth and love. Inherent to this level of evolution was her longing and ability to help others, which began to manifest as a young child in the form of familial and peer guidance.  From adolescence onward, she searched for a spiritual teacher, one who could not only confirm the sacred knowings that lay within her heart, but who could also take her beyond them. She searched to no avail, even as she continued to expand her consciousness through the study of spiritual literature, and self examination.

Then, in 2003, at the age of 51, Gay was granted her greatest wish. During a late-night channeling session with her beloved friend Adrianna, her teacher, whose name is Baharah, unexpectedly revealed himself. As an ascended Master resonating in the pristine realm of the One, he promised to guide and teach Gay for the rest of her life. Through a natural unfoldment, Baharah introduced her to a new form through which truth can be felt and understood. After three years, Gay’s concentrated exploration, integration, and application of Baharah’s teachings manifested in full remembrance of her divine self within the human experience. Her transformation took her from all that was not real, into all that was real, which is the chosen reality of love.

Since early adulthood, Gay has been aware of her spirit’s longing to find a way to relieve the pain and suffering of many people in an everlasting way. In keeping with this longing, in 1987 she became a Marriage Family Therapist and a Play Therapist specializing in childhood disorders. She devoted herself to this work for 21 years. Her study with Baharah led her to realize that her longing would be better met by sharing her knowledge with others through teaching, oration, and the written word.

To that end, she finished writing her first book in 2006. Entitled Inviting the Heart, it chronicles her relationship with Baharah, the unfoldment of his teachings, the experiences and transformations she subsequently underwent, and the far-reaching effects of the truths upon her life. At this time, Gay has decided to keep the book private, preserving it as a gift to her grandchildren that they might know the intimate story of how Choose the Heart began.

Gay’s current book in progress presents profound information regarding the intention behind the creation of Earth, who we really are, our purpose, and the Mind and Heart form. A major portion of the book focuses on the understanding and utilization of navigational tools for living life in comfort, based on spiritual laws and truths.

Gay is the founder, program director, and president of Choose the Heart. She is the mother of two extraordinary beings whose purpose aligns with her own. She enjoys international travel with her family, long hours at the barn with her horse Mimi, and quiet time at home with her cat Kiyia. Gay lives in Sebastopol California with her divine partner, family, friends, and pets. Her relationships and creations are a reflection of her remarkable life, which is the embodiment of freedom and joy. She is a living example of what is possible when you create from the limitless world of the Heart, wherein true love reigns.

Adrianna Kalember

Adrianna Kalember is a pure channel for Divine information. She is clairaudient, clairvoyant, and clairsentient. The greater part of her life has been dedicated to pursuing her understanding of these gifts and fulfilling her purpose by utilizing them. Over the past fifteen years she has received two miraculous healings, one of which occurred in Lourdes, France. At that time she was given the gift of “sight” though her hands. This sight, combined with her ability to hear spirit, opened a unique door through which to assist in the physical, emotional, and spiritual healing for those who seek help.

An even greater enhancement of her purpose occurred in 2003 when she began channeling Ascended Masters Baharah and Andua who reside within the pristine realm of The One. The information received from them is the foundation for Choose the Heart. Adrianna is an avid student and teacher of the body of work encompassing Choose the Heart. The phenomenon of allowing Spirit to inhabit her body temporarily in order to deliver divine information has become an ordinary occurrence in Adrianna’s life, one that is truly extraordinary each and every time.

Adrianna is the channel, spiritual teacher, Reiki master, and director for Higher Realms. She is also an instructor for the Higher Realms classes offer through CTH's Life School. She lives a quiet and busy life in Sebastopol, California. She is a gifted manifestor, creating abundance where others see limitations and impossibilities. For fun she enjoys cooking, painting, sculpting, and writing. For comfort, depth, and nurturance, she spends time with her treasured family. And for the rest of her life she will study the intrinsic relationship between spirit and human.

Ian M. Kalember

Ian M. Kalember is the CEO of Choose the Heart, with responsibility for all general operations.  He provides business consultation as the director and speaker for Enlightened Solutions. Ian is also a sales trainer and Realtor® who is actively involved in his community.  He currently serves as vice chair to the Sebastopol Entrepreneurs Project, is an appointed at large member of the Business Outreach Committee, and is on the board of directors for the Sebastopol Chamber of Commerce.

Working in the corporate world for 11 years, Ian finds success in applying his personal consciousness to his professional life.  His years of unconventional study give him a unique and enlightened approach to business. 

Ian endeavors to stimulate potential, and provide practical tools for implementing a diverse collection of positive changes.  He uses his employment as a place to practice what he knows, absorb greater understanding, and influence others by being an example of compassionate leadership.

Ian provides excellence in business by offering an affirmative perspective, and delivering charismatic results.  He empowers himself with the understanding that he is ultimately responsible, and believes each obstacle can be used for growth, instead of a rational for mediocrity.

Ian was born and raised in Sonoma County, and is very proud to live in Sebastopol with his wife Stacy, and sons Sebastian and Finian.

Sean Kalember

Sean S. Kalember is acting CFO for Choose The Heart, with responsibilities pertaining to the financial operations and creativity of the organization. He is an instructor for Redefining Business as Usual and Enlightened Solutions, offering financial and office management skills to the pubic. For 8 years he has also been a top producing sales consultant in the home insurance industry.

He is a dedicated student of CTH. His choice and ability to apply his spiritual knowledge to his personal and professional life has resulted in great manifestation and fruition. He resides in his beloved hometown, Sebastopol CA, with his wife Melissa and his daughter Olivia. He enjoys golfing and tutoring others in the world of finance. Everyday continues to be an opportunity for Sean to choose his heart.